determined to overcome this storm part 3

[Vanilla]

Hi V. So your right about letting him absorb all this. No al cholesterol it was drugs to keep her off of hheroin.i can't believe he would be into drama like this. He hates drama. Oh well his life his choice. I decide not to get involved.
I want a healthy r and m. So let him be. I've been learning amd detaching so it's easing the pain... it's actually amusing to see him try so hard for a heroin addict who thinks she can quit without help. She's making me look good. Lol.

Actually, we can see when it unfolds. At moment he chose drama, a heroin addict, please reassess, especially if this delicious OW plays the hoovering game. OK not heroin, this drama sounds more like cocaine or methamphetamine as you describe it. Very out of control. Care.

WH telling you this in the first place is his attempt at triangulation I think so. Don't bite on that crumb!

Try googling hoovering and abuse. There is some Intel on the abuse thread. WH is set up by OW for abuse, this is serious OW misbehaviour. Expect codependency and trauma, especially if OW starts a sweet cycle.

It's too easy, my stbxwh tried that one with his OW the fish wife.

V