Thank you for your response. Once again you bring up some great points. I have a couple of tests (nothing school related) that I want to take. It's not something the old me would have done. I think my other obsession will be meditating and trying to make that a daily part of my life. Healthy body healthy spirit.
He still has most of his stuff in this apartment. Would it be counter productive to ask him to remove all personal belongings before he leaves? I really want it gone, so the apartment will feel like mine, but I know it will irritate him and am I not supposed to avoid that? I sometimes get a little confused on how to DB according to my situation. I'm friendly and upbeat, but not super talkative with him. ARGGHHH!!! What to do?!?