Thank you Lady V, I still owe you responses to your prior questions.
For me right now the door is very close to closed. And I don't really know the path.
I know that I am gathering documents for my attorney and while my W seems to be more interested in my life right now, she's pushing ahead with the D. I also know that have plans for next year that don't include my W even if a miraculous 180 happened on her end.
It's still so confusing V, very much so. I see that it took courage, I see that she cares, I truly don't know the intent though. Was it courageous if her only goal was to make sure the D goes smoothly? This seems to be her pattern. There was always "hope that we'll get back together" until I had helped her move out of our house, and had passed Woofie back to her. Then without any further conversation she wanted to D.
I'm trusting that doing what I need to do to take care of myself, while still being kind and having compassion for my W is the best course of action right now. Well that and listening to all of the wise people on this board.
Your post has given me pause as they all do.
Thank you.
PP
(I'll start a new thread)
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17