tl2, Thanks for your replies. It's pretty hard to see his changes now that we're not living together anymore.
But I suppose he must see what it is that he has to change and take the responsibility for his own actions. I guess it'll be a case of I'll know it when I see it.
That recent 'cheaterbug' incident just shows how he is not there yet.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
