You said there have only been 2 outbursts. Well as a former anger addict I can say that I've seen how a single outburst completely changes the dynamic, and especially a woman's sense of comfort and trust. I didn't have constant outbursts, but after the first one she was already distancing herself. And that undercurrent of anger that I projected even if I didn't act upon kept the concern alive in her because I didn't address it and solve the problem head-on myself.
Believe me, if he truly makes a change, it will be impossible to miss.
