I did not approach w about the situation telling the kids I didnt want to go. I know the kids knew it was not true. I had a pretty good weekend alone. Played a lot of golf with friends and went out both nights. It is very weird going out and seeing the single life. I really am not ready for that. I have no question that it will be fine abd not hard to meet people if i ever feel i want to do that again, but there is just so much i would rather be doing in life than running the singels scene. Over the past few days i have thought about a lot of different things i believe i want to try. I need to get batter at writing these down and incorporating into goals and actually do them.
Couple notes on the relationship. Spoke to the kids Saturday evening and D7 tells me that they are getting ready to eat dinner and stay with Aunt and uncle and mommy is going out to meet her cousins. This made me very angry. the kids dont really know these people as they are W aunt and uncle. they have seen them when they were babies but that was it. I told wife i did not agree with this as they dont really know them and if that was the plan she could have left them at home with me. I know the kids are very clingy at night and dont like being in strange places alone. I am sure W was not happy that i expressed my opinion, but i felt it needed to be said for moving forward into the separeation that she will not be leaving them with people while she goes out. I will be the one to take them if she cant wait for days she is not with them.
She went to meet with someone to draft the separation agreement this morning. I am very curious how this will turn out. SHe said the cost is 250.00 and she was in and out of the office in under a half hour. I am sure my atty will have a field day with this document. Anyway still hoping for the best, i am up and down feeling wise. I am limiting all communication at the moment and getting ready to go dark after the move.
As always welcome any feedback!
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
