Hi judy thank you for your post. You know your right. And over the weekend I have not cried once. All I do is pray for detachment and it's working. Honestly I'm not a yo yo. I will.not be his 2nd choice. I deserve better. Is there hope he can change back? I mean seriously I've been thinking about this... and there would be so much he'd have to do to prove it to me. I don't know. Honestly I really don't know what to do anymore. I just pray and follow the direction our God wants me to go.


Me 34 H 33
Married 2006
S5 D2
BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
He moved out 2/2/2015
Came back 5/2015
Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015