What an incredible asset you are to this forum. Thank you for taking the time to leave such an in-depth response.
Everything you said makes sense. I get it now. I know I'm facing a long road ahead of me, but I'm confident I can do this now more than ever. Funny how hope can come in small, power-packed bursts just after thinking all is lost.
I wish I could print out these replies and tape them to my vanity. (NOT going to do that, lol, but sure would be nice to have easy access to them.) I think the best way to remember it is the dance analogy from above. He leads, I follow.
Me 35 H 45 M 12 T 13 S16, S11, D7, D5 IDTB (I dropped the bomb) 9/30/15