W called me up a few days ago, and mentioned her Uncle passed away and her sister's odd response. This is the classic "creepy uncle" who molested 5 of the sisters, and dangled W when she was 6 years old by her feet out of a 3rd story window.

The sisters wanted to send 1 of them to be the family's representative to the out-of-state funeral(?!) W had a good but sad response - Just like I won't go to my pediatrician's funeral who molested me, I can't even imagine attending 'creepy uncle's' funeral, and I hope you(i.e., the sisters) don't go either.

S14 had his last football game on Saturday, and was a monster after this. He was yelling at me about everything. Today, he then decided he did not want to go back to W's place, after begging to go back for several hours. He then "ran away" by busting off the back door screen. I did not chase after him. He came back an hour later yelling at me for not going out to my van, where he was waiting.

I am taking W to a traffic court hearing 1st thing tomorrow morning to fight an expensive ticket. I better review 'Sandi's 37 Rules' about a dozen times more times before I have extended time together with her (you know driving together, on a train, then the trip back.) And why do I always think that I have a chance for s3x out of this? My mind is still so messed up...


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace