I spent some time this weekend thinking about goals and what i want to achieve. I have not control of H and very little control over the timing of D so I am focusing on spiritual, emotional, physical and financial health. Here my goals for today through the end of November. I'd appreciate any input.
Spiritual: •Begin every day with a devotional/bible verse •Pray for other people every day •Do bible study daily •Cultivate S.M. friendships
Emotional: •Journal everyday, including 3 blessings •Don’t worry, pray •Go to one Meet Up •Do Radical Recovery modules 1 and 2 •Limited DB forum to 2x per day •Do not text, email or call H •Don’t push attorney
Physical: •PT exercises everyday •Pilates class 2x per week •Walk/bike 3x per week •Prep food/veggies 2x per week
Financial: •Continue house sale prep: pack up glassware, go through 2 closets/drawers per week, install trim, fix light in basement, purge Christmas by half •Do not use credit card •Increase amount in savings •Meet with mortgage loan guy
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
