I can do these two things, but am worried he will think I don't care if I don't ever send a text or make a phone call. I will trust you on this, but it certainly feels intimidating.

If he asks me how I'm feeling, do I hide true emotions if I'm sad and just act like I'm fine? Wouldn't it seem insensitive to not ask him how he feels in return? Or did you just mean refrain from asking on my own (with no prompting from him)?

Not sure what you mean by friendship doesn't equal husband. If he wants to be close/kiss/etc., what's your advice on how to respond? I don't want to reject him, that would seem counterproductive. But I don't know.


I am grateful for your wisdom and advice.


Me 35 H 45
M 12 T 13
S16, S11, D7, D5
IDTB (I dropped the bomb) 9/30/15