I spent last week fairly busy, but spent most of the time at home. I made my first ever batch of grape jam. It turned out pretty good. I made some stuff for a bake sale this week at work also.
I had a little contact with H this week. During our marriage, he paid for 3 bills - my cell phone, the car insurance and the cable / internet. I thought he was still going to pay for these things. I am paying for his health insurance. I wrote him a check last week for the bills he was paying. He asked me what the check was for and I told him it was for the bills. He responded saying he thought he owed me money rather than me owing him (because of the health insurance). I didn't respond to him, but he did cash the check.
I changed my cell phone over earlier in the week. Unfortunately, I had to contact him for the account information. He was nice enough to send me the information and I got the phone switched over.
Yesterday he contacted me asking why I hadn't changed over the cable bill to my name. I told him I didn't know I was supposed to. I asked him how much the bill was for and he responded. Apparently he did not pay last month's bill. He had no problem cashing my check for it though. I am pretty angry about it. I told him part of the check was for the cable bill. I was able to switch everything over to my name online, so at least that's one less thing for me to do.
Maybe it's childish, but I don't want to owe him anything or intentionally have anything he can throw back at me. He is already holding so much against me. It's like he was keeping a running list of everything I did slightly wrong the entire time we were together. And now it's justifying what he is doing.
It is strange that he keeps finding something to contact me about though. He contacted me 3 times this week and even asked if the phone transferred ok.
I have my next counseling session tomorrow. We'll see how that goes. I have a busy week ahead with a couple work trips and a work dinner tomorrow.
