Lovethehub, your message to Photo really resonated with me! My goodness, you've practically said the exact same thing my H has said. He's mad because I didn't start changing until he'd already given up. I didn't realize D was on the table, or I might have made changes earlier...who knows at this point?
He's involved with an EA (at the least) with someone else, but recently agreed to MC. I'm not holding out much hope at this point, but don't know what else to do except keep working on me and see where this goes. I'm really angry he refuses to give up his friendship with OW. How on earth can we fix things while he's still involved with her? I just don't see it, but he keeps saying it's not what I think...maybe he'll clue me in at some point.
Thanks for your post, even though it wasn't directed at me. It was exactly what I needed to hear!
