I don't subscribe to the belief that people need to become perfect to be in an R. That's what life is for- growth. I intend to follow your steps someday tl2. I just don't believe STBX should've destroyed our family because I hadn't gotten that far yet.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15