Also- I will be following this thread. This dynamic was very similar to my marriage. In fact, it would probably be a good idea for you to read my first few threads from the beginning. It might be what your H would have typed had he been here.
Talk soon and hang in.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15