i envy you not having little children. the headache has evolved to a whole new dimension now. my StBX writhing with confidence that they won't give the girls to their fathering preference, and in fact based on since proven flawed science - the family court is still gyrating on the personally motivated expert analysis of a stupid woman several year back that made the claim that young children cant cope with forming more than one attachment bond at a time, that IS with the mother and allowing the father even 1 overnight stay per week is hazardous. Barristers even have a nick-name for the defence it is that common.
hence i am shitting myself that even though my W is "generously" offering me 4 nights per fortnight an ~30% of the holidays, they are going to pull this on me at the last minute.
she and the commissioned paper has since been ridiculed as nonsense, but this isn't a box that can be ticked yet so the court remains ignorant.
did i mention that I am not feeling particularly generous to "women's rights" at the moment. i am being trampled by this sexist discrimination, and the court has it's head so far up its arse that can't see that all they are effectively doing is substituting the bond they have with me forming stronger bonds with MIL and OM as their male role model.
[censored] arseholes the lot of them.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
