Claire, I'm not going to express what I think *you* should do, and I totally understand where everyone here is coming from - boundaries, stepping up as a dad, I do get all that. But for me...... ......I'd allow it for my own D. Because my D says that this is home, and her dad's place is where she stays when she's not home. And I'd rather her be at home.
You know what's best for you and your D, and if saying no is right, then do it and don't give it a second thought.
......I'd allow it for my own D. Because my D says that this is home, and her dad's place is where she stays when she's not home. And I'd rather her be at home.