Hi Tlf2,
Yes, I regret the divorce. I started having second thoughts 1 week after filing. I asked if he would consider separation instead to work on the marriage and he flat out refused.

When I got to see my C later and told her what happened, she explained that from his perspective, I was still looking for a way out of the marriage.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.