Hi Tlf2, Yes, I regret the divorce. I started having second thoughts 1 week after filing. I asked if he would consider separation instead to work on the marriage and he flat out refused.
When I got to see my C later and told her what happened, she explained that from his perspective, I was still looking for a way out of the marriage.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.