Thanks, Cadet. I have been lurking on this board for the past 2 months, wishing that I had come to this forum instead of another forum.
I have been a very good pupil and have read read DR, SSM, How to get through to the man you love and many other M books.The prob/irony is that I only got to read these books and this forum after the divorce.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.