Thanks Wet and Ghost Nearer 7 years! Yes it has been tough. Our son never expected it when we told so it was heartbreaking to see him change from talking enthusiatically about holiday plans to stunned silence. We've all talked and hugged together and she will move out in a couple of days to a friend or her sister's.Maybe even her exboss although she says he lives too far way at the moment,he is waiting on an apartment and then they'll move in together.Feeling very alone. Living in a foreign country I've made a few friends but when I gave up playing on a sports team some fell away. Had a good friend in another couple but the wives didn't get on so that went. Dedicated time to family so tended to go out with wife's friends.They all think she's crazy and like me (even her sister!). Last night we all went for pizza and watched a movie at home. Today we spent almost an hour cuddles together in bed. Brain is scrambled
