I think that says it all Defacto and that's as much as you can hope for. I guess STBX getting a text from OM was telling too and I imagine you wouldn't want to open up in those circumstances.
It sounds like (although you don't want to D) you are in a pretty good place generally and I have every confidence your life will go from good to great.
Take care my friend xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus