XW wants lunch with me and...........OM

[tadpole1025]

Thanks Job and Exquisite.

Have you given any thought to possibly getting a kitten?

I have thought about it, but I kind of want a little dog instead. I'm waiting until I get my own place next summer.

I am 6 yrs past BD and I have my days.. I' m wondering if it is LIFE in general or a by-product of my XH' s departure. Like you, I KNOW he is NOT welcome back in my life and therefore, I have to live the best life I can with what I have. And it is not perfect but life is good.

I agree. I think that I will forever be scarred by this, but it does get better. As Job says, it takes a long time to dig out of this deep, dark hole.

I thought today was the perfect day to start a new thread since today is the 5 year anniversary of bomb drop. It can be found here:

Five Years Ago Today

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