Wow. Just wow. It's been a big day for you on a lot of levels! I agree this break will do you, especially, some good. My H travels a lot with work, and right now I am really thankful for that. Too much time together right now is not a good thing...so much healing to do.
I've slacked off on my self-care this week, trying to take care of so many other things. You've motivated me to make that a priority this next week! I cannot afford to slack off in that area, yet it is always the first to go.