Hi Mleigh - kudos to you on getting your own Costco card. As H seems to have a comfy situation there, I am curious to see how he reacts when he invites you to Costco and you say: I went yesterday! Lol!
It really is strange how they just assume they can have everything just so. Really, it's the same lack of self awareness that a kid has.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced