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[asitis]

Very good news. She feels like a stranger, because you are seeing her in a whole new light. Trust comes from building it, not before. You both will have wounds to heal. BTW, don't let OM's little gift to get in the way, just make sure she is tested that it's not the only gift. If it is what I'm thinking of, it's more a stigma than a problem. Still, it will be a reminder, and something you'll likely need counseling (both IC & MC) to get beyond - esp., as you'll have to not hold it over her head.

Treat this like a new romance. You get to know the new people you have both become and see how it goes. Enjoy the novelty and allow the flush of excitement to grow a bit, just as in any new R. It will help make the MC work better.

Keep up the good work. I'm very, very happy to see someone enjoying the fruit of all their hard work to save their M. Bravo!