Solo, you have obviously had a huge leap forward in your sitch and I am incredibly pleased for you and a little bit jealous.
You said you would never stop DBing and that is a great thing, what are your next steps i.e. what are your goals now?
It might sound like I'm pouring cold water, what I am actually doing is helping you to make sure the progress stays moving in the right direction.
You have some feelings that need to be dealt with and so both of you seeing a suitably qualified MC, separately and together would make an awful lot of sense.
What other things have you considered and if you haven't had time, or the inclination then it's time to do so as measures like this will ensure it is a permanent reunion otherwise you are leaving things to chance and that is a high risk game when you have worked so hard to come so far.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
