Listen please listen I am the worst at taking my own advice but I am trying to come to terms that my marriage is over she has to be the one to fix it and right now she does not want to do this my W has had enough
Now getting a life outside your marriage is a must it is something that I am working on myself it is as hard as you want to make it.....me I am digging in my heals but I am slowly coming to terms with things
The more you can detach the easier you will find things later
This is not easy I have four kids the youngest is two for me my sitch is breaking my heart for the reason I will not see my kids so much forget me and the W right now I am feeling for my children and the fact that I will see them less
Join a club look at meet ups in your area .....I cannot give any advice on the turning your feelings off that is hard buddy it really is .....
I try to see her as a neighbour or a lodger but .....shakes head .....25 years I have known her so for me to detach may take me years I really do not know
I am sorry you are here but you will be ok you are amongst friends
Take care
Ghost
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
