Don't be too easy going about giving her the D she's asking for. All I can tell you is my opinion based on my own experience. My wife cheated and I demanded a divorce. If she was as "respectful" about that decision as you're being, and going along as nicely as you are, then I guarantee you we'd be divorced today. Instead she fought for our marriage, refused divorce, and showed me with actions that she was still the girl for me. That may not be related to your sitch because you're not acting inappropriately, she is, but as far as making her D decision go very smoothly for her, if you don't want to D, then don't do that. If you do marriage coaching here and they tell you otherwise then do that. They're really good. Good luck my friend. I absolutely hate seeing marriages dissolve. I sincerely wish the best for you.
