Hi mleigh, sorry you've been feeling a bit blah. I find that comes and goes for me. Sometimes, I can be forging ahead and feeling strong, and others it just gets to you. And as time goes on, sometimes I just get tired of the whole situation. But I guess if we just keep moving forwards, we'll get there.

It sounds as though things are going pretty well with your H and good that he wants to participate in some of these events for special occasions. It is interesting that he does appear to presume you will do things like that as a family. As you have posted before, that's a bit of a hard line to tread sometimes. Is it another opportunity to connect? Do you want to start doing these things independently? I don't know what the right answer is, but as long as you can keep moving forwards, I think that is the main thing, and in time things will work themselves out in whichever way.

A mountain lion.....wow! I'm going to look up mountain lions now - don't think I have ever seen one. Yes, it's well worth a little extra precaution with those fur babies. Enjoy getting ready for your party and have a good weekend xx


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