I am really confused right now. I love my wife and don't want a divorce. I thought things were going fine. She even rode in the car with me to go pick up one my two daughters from a previous marriage (the other had to stay this weekend for a school function). My ex is in the process of trying to increase my child support payments, which has my wife very upset. When we arrived, my ex's husband came out to talk to me about child support. My wife yelled at me from the car. When I got in the car, she began to yell at me and continued almost all the way home. She was enraged partly because I didn't come to get her so that she could participate in the conversation and tell him to mind his own business. On the way home, she asked for a divorce. When we got home, she walked out, but after a while, she came back. I tried to ask her why she wants a divorce. She doesn't want to talk to me about it. Now she is in our room with our three year old boy. I told her, "I don't want to bother you. You can sleep in there with him if you want, and I'll leave you alone." She seems very intent on getting a divorce now and to be honest, I don't really understand why. It seems like she is letting my ex and her husband interfere with our relationship. What should I do?
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.