Well today I was served with legal separation papers. Our state requires a one year separation before you can get a divorce. She has really been detaching herself from me. She started packing tonight but what is so messed up is right now she is done for the night and we are gonna end up sleeping in the same be after she had me served. That is messed up. She could at least leave. I have been very quiet and let her pack up. I did tell her once she moves I would appreciate it if she calls me before she comes over. I think it is over. She tells me I will never trust her again and she will never trust me again. I do think the separation will be good for us. maybe she can get some clarity. She has ruined her relationship with one of her kids and seriously damaged it with the other. But this doesn't seem to bother her.
