Working through it

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Thank you ILYNOT and Ancaire, this helps a lot believe me.

I did what I felt was right. This is a woman who I love, and my ILs have always treated me well and open their homes to me; I would not allow her to live with regret because of something like money.

I will keep an eye on the card of course, if she takes advantage of it that is yet another thing she has to live with, she is further making it difficult for me to move past things if that's how she would like to do me during this situation; family is family and when I married her she became family, but I am not a dunce, so once she is done with her trip, I am removing her as an authorized user.

Thank you about the suggestion with the email, it is in the tip of my tongue. I just want to confront her, but then I think "This has not worked in the past, so where is it going to get me now?"; so I decided not to mention it. I just hope I keep that up.

Ancaire, I just want to say that I am very happy for you to be piecing things already. from your amount of posts, it sounds like even in the short time you were going through a lot. I will read up on your sitch.

God Bless you both!