The owh he might just be looking for a safe place to socialise.

Ie, you know what happened you won't want to know details and you won't ask him questions and might have some empathy.

I have found my greatest support without being nosey, those that have walked the path. They don't ask in public, they don't pry.

You know how hard it can be to be confronted, I was many times in public and it made my throwing up and pyscial Grief and shock far worse.

Be friendly, if you don't want to hear his side, set a boundary early on. You can say if he mentions it....

I'm putting all the "stuff/drama/scandal" behind me and don't want to focus on it by dwelling and talking in depth. Etc....

He also might be overly friendly as he's sooooooo hurt and over compensating. Don't read anything into it. Take it as it is face value only.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26