Glad to hear you are ok but sorry to hear of separation; attorney has your best interest. I spoke with attorneys for my sit but could not pull the trigger realizing D does not help/fix me and my sit. WW realized D is not in her best interest either.
Several times over the last year WW told me she only needs me for the financial support; and would continue saying I was never there to support her emotionally. I have no idea what WW wants in the R. We spend weekends together doing stuff; no different than years past. If I go dark now she may say that’s just me being selfish; making reference to who I was before therefore NOT me doing 180s.
Could it be that she was thinking of me? Possibly. This is truly who she is that she does so much for others (goes out of her way). Brings me to a comment she said, she refuses to allow herself to let me make her happy, that for years that’s what she was trying to get me to do (which I did not get..comprehend), and now she will do what she wants to make herself happy; does not need my support/approval.
