Things sound good on the western front. You're even getting your mojo back! Each time I check in, you sound better.
But you have to stop taunting us with these stories of country living, home maintenance, needed renovations, proximity to ski hills, as well as being a strong, principled woman who understands processes and numbers and looks out for her children. Some of us have full sets of tools, knowledge of things mechanical, our skis waxed and at the ready, know that 2 is an inherently better number than 3, and admire independence, but are firmly nailed to the opposite coast.
Congratulations on the transfer and the compassionate boss. It was good that you told her of your situation. Generally, people like to be helpful. Some of my W's close friends, who she has confided in and know much of the sordid story, and who I figured would be loyal only to her have come up to me privately and offered support, and help with the kids if I need it after this whole mess is sorted out. Took me by surprise, and it may be BS, but it seemed kind and for now I'll take that at face value.
