WW Conversation

[thriver]

Perhaps I've gone TOO dark? But I really have no reason to initiate contact (as per the DB rules). We don't have kids, so I only initiate contact in regards to finances.

I don't know, the distancer/pursuer thing has never worked in our R. I guess that says a lot.

With divorce only a few days away, I wonder about what you said TxHubby. Have I gone so dark and shown her that I'm tying up loose ends (financially) that it appears to her that I'm done and would never take her back? That's not the case. I would take her back if she put in the proper work and showed genuine remorse. I won't take her back as "just a friend".

Since it's the 11'th hour of this thing, I'm wondering if I should just have the "I don't want a D and I'm still open to R. Are you sure this is what you want?" and then leave it at that. Is that a horrible idea?

Any other advice? I'm very desperate at this point...these next few days are going to be stressful.