Well Sunny - Insecurity and nagging get old eventually....which doesn't bode well for the duck. That being said, until that happens - It sounds like there are going to be times that he puts her needs above D12s. And that blows.
I was never a nag, and I really thought he'd tire of the duck quickly. He readily admits their relationship is "rocky" but he somehow sticks it out. Mindblowing that he sticks that one out but couldn't stick ours out.
And, yes, it blows that he even considers putting her in front of his children. It's not just D12, he would be missing out spending time with the other two also, they just aren't covered in the parenting agreement. I really can't comprehend how that's OK.
I know I did the right thing asking for the D, the timing was right both for me to move on and for his guilt to be generous. But getting through the steps is no fun.
