I have dropped all L. I am giving her the space she needs. She must be going through something , sadly i wasnt there for her emotionally thanks to my past which i have come to accept. I am working on myself now. How to let my childhood go and stop it from interfering with my family. I have given all my worries , troubles, and anxiety to our Lord. He will put the pieces back together. I will not go by the "worlds way" I would go by God's law instead. I will be patient and I will love her forever.