Thanks Sotto. I agree. My situation is so far gone I don't even know what kinds of signs/milestones to look for. So I try not to do anything stupid and focus on me. Trying to follow all the DB rules can be very stressful in itself.

I am only 3 1/2 months out from BD and I'm just now recovered enough to think about actually goals. My plan is to write some down this weekend.

H says he wants to divorce quickly but hasn't done anything to move forward except file. Some days I think I have time DB to work and some days I don't. I'm trying to move forward but keep the door open a crack.


Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming