so I need a little advice. W is taking the kids back to her hometown this weekend. She never invited me obviously. The kids have been telling me they want me to go and i have been dodging the question. This morning my D7 told me she asked W if was or could go. Wife told her i didnt want to go. I do not want my children thinking i dont want to go to things they are because it is untrue.
This also could have been my daughter misunderstanding what W said. Either way i do not want W telling false statements to them about me.

Do i approach her on this? and how?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15