Thanks roiste, yes moving forward with a transparency plan will be hard. I need to trust her.
Her actions over the last 9 months have really made last night difficult because she has been moving back towards me in regards other commitment to the marriage.
The biggest deal was the way I've seen him touch her in public. Now she doesn't even remwber these situations but I do vividly. She just said that is how he is...which does not make it any more appropriate. Only less so...if he is in a sex starved marriage and has no limits on what he would do in terms of touching another woman that speaks more volumes to me about his character than anything that anyone could say about him.
The fact that my wife did not object or stop him from any sort of swnsual touching was just too much...I know what that kind of touchung means to me...to see it. Uugh.
