Boy I think this is totally what happened in my case. OW kept telling him "you are miserable why don't you leave". The whole time he was telling me " we are better than ever"
My WW was the same way. A month before she said she wanted a divorce we were looking at a vacation house in a different state. Her best friend was a horrible influence in our R, I know she encouraged us splitting up. I think it's common with the lbs to be so upset, because everything appears to be ok, then BOOM! Punch to the gut...
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016