Hi Overcom, I think making your health a priority is important. It will be easier to make progress and move forwards when you feel well and strong within yourself. Try not to worry about what H is doing right now. For now, his life is his life and yours is yours apart from some inevitable liaison about childcare.

What treatment are you getting for your depression my friend??

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus