Originally Posted By: EyeTie
Originally Posted By: OhGreat
ITie is doing ok, but is it really DB? Going out and getting some isn't really dbing right? Unless it is, in which case, I got some calls to make.


While my situation isn't really DB, DB got me to this point. I never wanted to lose my wife, but through DB I found a new life that I am happy with. I have new hobbies, friends and a new girl in my life. 10 months ago, I thought my life was over, I thought that I would never get better. It took me a long time to get here, but I am happier now than I have been in years.


There comes a point where you have to say am I done waiting? Am I going to risk not taking the next opportunity to meet a np?

It was in reality 2 years almost when I met my np, from when h started the a as best as I can work out.

Was I done putting my intimate life on hold for something that may never happen? Yeap by then we'll and truely.

Could things be different with xh2, I doubt it.

For the following reasons
He cannot accept his wrongs or contributions
Doesn't take respsonabilty
Lies
Still with ow
Has not contacted ever.
Refused to acknowledge r.
Talked disrespectfully via L only just months ago
He is not changing his patterns of behiavours

So would you put your life and chance at a np on hold at 45?


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26