gogofo, thank you for sharing your story, It truly is a blessing to give us hope at least to see what has worked for you.
I know there are not guarantees but we can all pray and hope we will turn out reconciling with our spouses.
But I like the fact that you were doing much better on your own and living life! Great to hear that! Gives us the confidence we need!
I've been dark for a couple of weeks now ever since I found out W was texting/talking OM, that was a drop the rope for me.
We will see how my sitch goes. I will keep posting, I have learned a lot on this site, but I was doing everything wrong thinking she was just a WW. I became a "friend".
Anyhow keep up the good work, we are all rooting for you!