No ow as well. Separating and being nc is for you, in this case it will offer pyscial safey. In au an avo (violence order) in place will mean police should respond in a timely manner should she need.
Pepper spray is good, but he could use it on her. If he thinks there is nothing wrong with rape and she's Making excuses for the behaivours this is serriously unhealthy and bordering on extreme.
Her h needs help, those issues cannot be fixed in 5min. The work starts by the w standing up from being the door mat, she needs to change her part. That starts now.
If her h truely wants r, when he's sorted his issues nothing will stop him. Wise advice given by the vets on this board.
I have been of the board locked out by my own hand, but if you want moral support and you will need it, I will take time out and come by. Lots.
To listen to say this ain't your fault you don't need to be raped as he us your h.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
