PP, I'm so very sorry that you are at this point of wondering if you are DBing or not or if it's just time to stop. I like to think though that DBing is about finding yourself again. The one you would want to be best friends with. So whether or not you're doing things actively when interacting with your W, you are finding PP. the guy we all really like and admire.
Hugs E
Thank you E, very much. I believe what you said about DB'ing being about me, I have forgotten this and been a bit depressed lately. However, you are correct. There is still much that I can learn and put into practice even as we continue down the road towards D'ing. I catch myself daily with thoughts that show I still have detaching to do and wanting to take actions that are clearly not in line with DB'ing.
I appreciate this post. And you.
Big hug,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
