beckyb, why are you waiting for something to happen? Don't waste your time, go and do something else., it's not as important as you and how you feel are.

Have you looked at your written goals recently? Do they need updating or a bit of jiggling? When I'm feeling a bit lost or down at heel, refocusing on what I want from life usually gets me thinking in the right way and the blues lift.

Being gentle on yourself is important, acknowledging where you are is the start of the process, really knowing where you are heading is where it starts to get exciting again.


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?