Thanks Sandi. You are right, I cannot be her friend. I will not demote myself.

The consequences after I found out about the OM. I implemented Sandi's rules. I do not , pursue, text, initiate convos, or touch her. I have semi-detached. But she still knows that if she really needs me I will be there. (This will end when I go dark)


Me - 34 W - 34
T- 4
M- 2
No Kids
BD - 4/18/15 ILYBNILWY
EA/possible PA 06/20/15
Seperated 09/28/15