Thanks Sandi. You are right, I cannot be her friend. I will not demote myself.
The consequences after I found out about the OM. I implemented Sandi's rules. I do not , pursue, text, initiate convos, or touch her. I have semi-detached. But she still knows that if she really needs me I will be there. (This will end when I go dark)
Me - 34 W - 34 T- 4 M- 2 No Kids BD - 4/18/15 ILYBNILWY EA/possible PA 06/20/15 Seperated 09/28/15