Just read your thread. You sound so together. I hope one day I'll make it as far as you. I hope you don't mind, but I do have a questions pertaining to your situation 10 years ago: How did you DB when your husband was in another state? My husband is about to go away for months for work (and we don't currently live together) and I am confused about how that's gonna work.
I'm so sorry to hijack your thread like this. Please ignore if you don't want to talk about it.